Author deanna

when winning is shutting the fuck up sometimes

I left Facebook a week or so ago now as Don told me it would make me a better person not to argue with rednecks. And yeah, he is right, though my natural inclination is to believe that the perspectives… Continue Reading →

An INR of 3.4 will make you bleed—A LOT

Yesterday was one of those days you don’t want to live if you had a choice. I worked in the morning, and at my first lunch break, decided to jump in the shower. I had an appointment with the plastic… Continue Reading →

success comes in small steps

So…I was going to write yesterday but then got freaked out about jinxing us in our path. And he did ask for wine when I had him make that loin for dinner–mashed up turnips and potatoes with an instant pot… Continue Reading →

the attitude and gratitude and latitude

So…that was a tough thing I wrote the other day. I mentioned I might take it down, which I did, because, well, WTF. It’okay–that was a hard day and Don and I have been talking about our support, or lackthereof…. Continue Reading →

the things we do…or more aptly titled, the things *I* do

1/22 you moron. One two-two-eighteen. The thing that happened the same day I wrote the post is a lesson in and of itself…the no drinking turned into a drinking on 1/22 that basically resulted in a several pint blood loss… Continue Reading →

1/22 err one twenty-two-day 5 of Life without Liquor

Lately things have been getting so much better, well I expect they will and will expect they continue to improve. This is day 5, no wine. Now wine and I have a contentious relationship in that sometimes it does seem… Continue Reading →

New Year. New Life for us All…

The turning of the new year has been bittersweet for obvious reasons…I want to take a minute to be thankful of the people I do have around who have not judged, who have been there for Don and I during… Continue Reading →

To Be Happy–a New Year’s Wish for us all…

I have been thinking about the past year, the things that have happened, the things that I wanted to happen and the ones that took me my surprise, but remarkable events nonetheless. This is getting published at 7:30 PM MOUNTAIN… Continue Reading →

so wouldn’t ya know

Asking people for money without an official gofundme? Never gonna happen. EVER. Which is fine as a problematic ID snafu happened with Don’s license. He renewed it and of course did not go down in person to ensure its immediacy–nope,… Continue Reading →

Christmas was…and then it wasn’t…

I still harbor a little resentment with the ruining of Christmas…it only seems weird if people ask what we got. Wanna know what I got? AN INSTANT POT for Black Friday I bought for us both. That was what we… Continue Reading →

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